josephjanes wrote:OC'ing in Starbuck's today (141 E. Main St., Newark). 55-60-ish WM, pony-tail, earring, felt obliged to let me know 'that thing' is 'provocative'. I ignored him and kept on reading. He didn't seem to appreciate having his unsolicited opinion ignored !!Sounds like he doesn't have one of 'those things,' which might explain why he's provoked by your 'thing.'